Well, I’m about forty percent finished the first draft of my new manuscript. I like where it’s going so far and I’m thinking about what I’m going to end up doing with this. I have so many stories in my head right now that it’s actually getting hard to focus on just one. I’ve started writing intros and making notes on other books, and then keeping focused on just one.
The sad fact is that if I didn’t get distracted by every little thought that came into my mind (like this blog entry) my book would probably already be done. I just got a new job that should allow myself some more time, and a few other details got ironed out in my life. Some new wrinkles emerged, but you know – that’s life. I’m spending as much time as I can right now focusing on the positives and keeping myself busy.
Speaking of positives, I’ve been enjoying the weather now that it’s started to cool down and I’ve been spending a lot of time with my son. A lot of people ask me why I don’t put pictures of him online, and there’s a very simple answer for that.
I don’t need to and it’s not safe.
There are too many creepers online and too many people who will take a picture of a child and use it to scam other people. Those pictures of kids you get in your email with the message something like; “my name is sally and I’m dying of cancer. If you forward this to 100 people AT&T will give my family $1”?
Yeah, that’s a real child. That picture is probably taken off someone’s facebook account. I’m not willing to have my son attached to something like that – or to the worse, more obvious things.
I think people lose touch with the idea that the Internet is a very real place with real people who are both good and bad. I’ve met some amazingly helpful and good people online, and I’ve met some people who are the worse of the worst. We spend so much time telling our children to “be safe online!”
Unfortunately, many adults don’t follow by the same rules that they expect their children to. Apparently if you’re over the age of 18 or 25 or 40 the big bads can’t get you or your family.
I’d rather not take a risk. I love my son. He’s the most precious and amazing person I have in my life. I watch him grow up more every day. I watch him draw and learn and I listen to what he has to say about important topics (like Iron Man and monster trucks, oh yes) and I listen to the stories he tells me and to what he dreamt the night before. I couldn’t imagine anything bad ever happening to him.
Remember, people. Play it safe online. Not just for yourselves, but for your children, friends, and family members too.
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